Emotional Guys

I've always thought that I was very emotional. In fact, everybody tells me the same thing. I've always thought it was because I grew up with my mother and three sisters. My dad was always busy with work. Don't really like him, but that's a different story.

But now, I've noticed something with my son. He's incredibly emotional. I've always thought I was a very 'strict and macho' father. He loves me, but he is afraid to cross me. He can hug and kiss me all he wants as well as demand the same from me, but when I say something, it's law! Not two ways about it.

So how did he become so emotional?

Today, I went out to get him some socks. As I was picking something out, he ran towards the escalator. I manage to catch him right before he stepped onto the escalator.

As usual, I put on my strict face, picked him up and gave him a lecture. I know he's just three years old, but he understands what I'm talking about. So he could use the lecture on safety.

Anyway, he starts crying and declares that he no longer loves me, but loves the maid instead. He also wants to go to my parent's house.

Don't you see? He's too sensitive and emotional.

I don't know whether it's a good thing or a bad thing. Does the world need more sensitive guys. It would be okay if he had his strong side as well. But all I see in him is his sensitive side, loving side, brilliant side and naughty side.

How do I make my son 'tough'. I'm tough, up to a point. But that's all about keeping things bottled up, like a 'real man' should.

But how do you do influence a three year old child to act tough. I don't want him to lose his sensitive and loving side. Just want him to have a pair of balls to go with it.

What do you think?