Change to accomodate?

This morning on my way to work, the morning show on radio was discussing how women change in order to accomodate the men in their life. Callers (women of course) were saying that they will change for the better. Only men change for the worse once they get into a relationship.

BULLSHIT!!!

You see, women have been brainwashed by women's magazines that have articles like "Ten ways your man isn't treating you right" or "Does he deserve a great gal like you?"... They think they are perfect.

It's always a man's fault in anything. When a man blames a woman for anything, then he's being abusive. He's not being understanding... blah blah blah... why isn't it ever quite simply a woman's fault?

You know when most women will be 'accomodating' in a relationship? When the guy treats her like crap. That's why you see many women who are verbally, emotionally and physically abused, but yet stay in the relationships for totally wrong reasons.

These women need to be liberated!

But then, these same women will suddenly become the 'guy' when they get into a relationship with the nice guy. Now the guy will be verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abused... and it will be the guys fault!!!

Bottom line, BOTH men and women are animals in the core. We will dominate when possible. And we may abuse that power that we have achieved.

We have to step back and analyse the relationship. Don't look at what the other person is doing wrong only. Look at yourself. What have you been doing that would qualify you as an asshole? How would you feel if you were treated that way... in fact how did you feel when you WERE treated that way in previous relationships.

Don't be a hypocrite... the world would be a better place if we all not only talked the talk, but also walked the walk...