Kissing

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. ~Ingrid Bergman

I remember my first kiss... and also every relationship's first kiss... it's something you can never forget...

My first kiss was around 14 years ago... it was an extremely sweet moment... we were talking... can't remember about what... probably because of the fact that neither of us were paying attention to the conversation anymore... we kept on inching closer to each other... and then slowly, our lips met.

It was an amazing feeling that no words can describe... you end up on cloud nine... you have that stupid grin on your face... you feel like nothing else around you matters...

Not everybody has a sweet first kiss moment... a friend of mine, who shall remain anonymous (surprise, surprise huh?) had a 'not so sweet' first kiss. Her boyfriend was all too ready to shove his tongue down her throat... since it was her first kiss, she wasn't really sure what to do, and had her mouth closed... instead of being patient, the guy tried his level best to get his tongue past her teeth... obviously it never happened... so here was this guy, banging his tongue on her teeth... if the problems ended there, then it would had been fine... after all, it was her first kiss... you don't expect tonsil hockey with the first kiss... after the kiss, they guy actually said 'next time, mind the teeth'.... wow...

Now, I don't claim to be an expert at kissing... but what he did was just wrong!!!

Another thing which you should never do is bite the other person's tongue... with that I mean a really strong bite, thinking it's 'naughty'... the tongue is a very sensitive organ... if somebody bit your tongue, you would definitely lose your mood... there was somebody who sometimes bit my tongue... I never said anything, nor will I ever... it ruins the mood if you tell somebody that 'they are doing it wrong'...

For those who are in a serious relationship, it may suddenly dawn on you that you will never again have a 'first kiss'... after all, if you're serious in the relationship, why would you expect another 'first kiss'... I do feel that it's something I'm going to miss... that's why I treat every kiss as though it was our first and may be our last... so make it count...